The Whole Mess
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Collector of contradictions, student of imperfection, and occasional meditator. Writing from the messy middle with equal parts honesty and humor.
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I guess I’m officially middle-aged. Though, let’s be real. I’m not likely going to live to be 90 years old. It’s a bit of a mindfuck to think that my life is probably more than half-over. Yet, I don’t dread getting older. I feel like my life just keeps getting better.
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I recently paid for my dead body to be turned into mulch when I die. It’s called human composting, and I’m weirdly excited about it. I also didn’t realize how much stress I was carrying, not knowing what I would be leaving behind for my heirs to deal with while also grieving. I (hopefully) still…